There are times in everyone's life, I'm sure, that they say to themselves, "well, that looked easier than I thought it was going to be". When I was a teenager I always wanted a relationship. Oh, I knew I wasn't ready, but I wanted one. I wanted to get married and have kids, and just be the stay at home mother and just help were I can in whatever church that I was attending.
I did not realize until, well, I think it hit me yesterday, that a relationship isn't easy all the time. Being with someone means work and a lot of it. Communication is harder than is sounds. Believe me when I say this, because it's true. Sometimes David and I forget to tell each other things, like I did something for the wedding and for got to let David know or David worked a different shift today and told everyone else, but me. My point is it's hard to communicate sometimes.
Now, top the communication things that will happen with disagreements and making big decisions. Put two stressed out individuals together making big decisions and who have disagreements, this could turn out bad. However, Because I love David and he loves me things work out. We both rely on God to help us through problems we may have. And above all respect each other and try not to get mad and see the other persons side.
To those of you teenagers or young people who think it's easy, oh it is for a little while, but after a couple of years being together and making decisions about getting married and where you'll live or even what your wedding vows are harder things to decide than you once thought.
The easy thing to do would to just give up, but if you love someone and I mean really love, you'll want to stick around. And you'll do anything you need to, even admit it when you are wrong in order to make it work.
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